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When a hire does not work out, most leaders review the hire. They reread the resume, second-guess the interview, and wonder what they missed in the references. The more useful review is of the process that produced it.
I learned that after nearly a decade in executive search. Before I ever coached a team through a hiring decision, I watched hundreds of them get made. The teams that hired well were not the fastest, and they were not the most thorough. They were the ones who understood how they were making the decision, and why.
A bad hire is usually the visible cost of a decision pattern that was already running underneath. Hiring just brings it into the open, because the seat is empty, the clock is running, and everyone can see how the team behaves when it has to commit.
Most owners who lose their best people do not lose them to a better offer. They lose them to a pattern they cannot see in themselves, and it rarely looks like bad leadership. It looks like being busy.
Most leaders don't have a perfectionism problem. They have a triage problem. They hold everything to the same high standard, then wonder why they're exhausted and why their team has slowed to a crawl.
Perfectionism usually gets talked about as a personality trait or a quiet badge of honor, the weakness you confess in an interview because it doubles as a strength. That framing misses what it actually costs. The problem is rarely that a leader cares about quality. The problem is that the standard gets applied evenly, to everything, with no decision about where it belongs.
Most leadership hires fail not because the candidate was wrong, but because the company never named what version of the role it was actually filling. The seat looked like the one that existed before. The job description was a refresh of the last one. The slate was sourced against the same profile. The hire was made, the candidate showed up, and a year later it was clear the seat had changed and the hire didn't fit the seat that was actually waiting.
Most leaders know how to make hard people decisions. The reason they postpone them is not the deciding. It is the unspoken fear that the decision will land badly. That the team will read it as evidence of an unstable hand, that the wrong people will leave, that the conversation will create more friction than the situation it solved.
That fear is rarely the actual outcome. But it is reliable enough to keep leaders from acting on calls they would otherwise make.
The retention question most senior leaders are asking right now is the wrong one. The right question is not whether your top performers are happy. It is what story your company has been telling them through its decisions over the last twelve months.
Turnover does not start with a resignation. It starts with a pattern of small, defensible decisions that, taken together, tell your best people what kind of company you are becoming.
Executive presence is one of those terms that gets used constantly and defined rarely. It shows up in performance reviews, in promotion conversations, in the vague feedback that someone "needs to develop their presence." But when you press for specifics, most people can't describe what they mean. They just know it when they see it.
What looks like agreement is often something else. A team that has, over time, been quietly trained to avoid. Not because they're conflict-averse by nature, but because they learned what happens when someone speaks up.
Maybe it was a dismissive response in a meeting. Maybe it was a leader who asked for honesty and then made the person regret giving it.
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We all have that voice—the one that second-guesses, catastrophizes, and keeps us small. Mine? Her name is Becky. For years, she ran the show, convincing me that playing it safe was smart. But here’s the truth: Becky isn’t wise—she’s just outdated fear in disguise. Naming her changed everything. I stopped confusing her with my intuition and started leading from courage, not worry. This post is for every high-achiever whose inner critic sounds convincing but isn’t in charge anymore.